Sunday, February 27, 2011

Make-up

Uncle Chuckie, why do so many woman where so much make-up?

It's ignorance and weakness.

Ignorance and weakness?

Yes. Weakness do to the fact that they are not strong enough to understand why they let the industry/media tell them how they are suppose to present themselves. They are told that they are not up to life's standards. You must look like we say you are suppose to look.
Ignorance do to the fact that they are not sure who they really are. When they look in the mirror they do not like who they see so they try to cover it up, disguise it. They continue to put on more and more until they don't recognize who's in the mirror any more. They shave off their beautiful brows off and draw new ones on.
Ignorance do to the fact that they do not realize that when they look in the mirror they are not looking at their outer selves. They are looking at their inner selves and they do not like what they see.
Say that there is a young man and a young lady who frequent the same place twice a week. They smile/flirt with each other. One day he speaks to her and ask her name. They have a brief conversation then go about their way. The next time they meet, she is all made-up with different cosmetics and he speaks to her and goes about his way. Now she's upset and is wondering what is wrong. She blames him and never wants to speak to him again. Why didn't he have a conversation with her? He no longer recognized her. He was attracted to the real her. Her natural beauty. When she came in looking like someone else, he was no longer attracted to her. And the reverse is the same. If he had met her with her make-up on and was attracted to that and when she finally took it off and he was no longer attracted to her. He can see the real her and how she do not like who she really is.
If you don't like who you are, how can you expect someone else to like who you are? You have to Love you first then everything will follow. However, you can't over Love yourself and make everyone else a second class citizen. It is a beautiful balancing act that we all must learn.

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